Here is a compilation of what I've learned as a bride,
as well as tips and tricks for easy planning. It's all
of the things that I wish I had when I started my
two-year journey to the aisle!
A Planning Checklist
12-18 Months Prior
Congratulations! Announce your engagement to friends and family.
Decide on a type or style of wedding.
Figure out a rough budget estimate.
Pick a date for your wedding.
Start looking at wedding reception sites immediately, and find out about booking and deposits.
Pick a wedding coordinator, if you choose to have one.
Listen to DJs or Bands and narrow down your choices.
Pick your florist and ask about packages, if applicable.
Begin your preliminary guest list.
Decide on a color scheme.
Find a caterer.
Start shopping for your gown and accessories. It's never too early to start!
Choose your videographer and photographer. Ask about package deals and what they include.
6-12 Months Prior
Enroll in a bridal gift registry.
Make your honeymoon reservations.
Order invitations, response cards, envelopes, thank-you cards etc.
Make final arrangements with your caterer. Decide on a bar setup and meal choices.
Look at cakes and choose which you will order.
Draw maps and write out directions to include with invitations.
Arrange fittings for tuxes and choose what style you like.
4-6 Months Prior
Plan your rehearsal dinner.
See your doctor to take necessary examinations.
Finalize your guest list.
Buy gifts for your wedding party.
Finalize your honeymoon arrangements.
Arrange your wedding day transportation (limo, etc.)
2-4 Months Prior
Buy a wedding gift for your fiance.
Mail your invitations.
Arrange wedding day hair, makeup, etc. appointments for yourself and your attendants.
Send a music list to your band or DJ. Don't forget to tell them what you don't want to hear.
Buy your wedding rings.
Have a final dress fitting.
1-2 Months Prior
Update your mailing address and name change with credit companies, mailing lists, etc.
Make sure your attendants know all wedding details.
Finalize reception seating arrangements.
2 Weeks - 1 Month Prior
Arrange to have your cake knife, toast glasses, guestbook etc. brought to the reception site before it begins.
Give a final call to your florist, photographer, and videographer.
Have a party for your bridesmaids.
The Week of the Wedding
Enjoy your bachelorette party and rehearsal dinner.
Pick up your dress.
Make any finalizing phone calls that you feel are necessary.
Relax and try to avoid stress.
